Why Won’t Angelina Grow Up?!
August 28, 06 by Ballz!
Brad and Angelina turned up to actor Scott Caan’s birthday party the other night, only to find out that her dad, actor Jon Voight, had also been invited. When they pulled up a woman rushed out to greet them and tell them that John was inside, they then spent 30 minutes driving around until finally Brad decided to enter the party alone while Angelina refused to get out of the car until he left. Shortly after, Jon left and Angelina was seen sneaking in the back door.
Angelina and her father haven’t spoken to each other for years and Brad had reportedly tried to bring a reconciliation in the family since the birth of their daughter Shiloh, unsuccessfully so far.
Samantha Says: 28.08.06 at 2:51 pm
I actually like this woman very much and she’s totally stunning and everything, but she’s behaving like nothing short of an absolute idiotic dumbass!!! It’s disgusting and pathetic- woah looks like I may not like her so much after all!!!!
judy Says: 28.08.06 at 3:38 pm
She needs to get over herself, back when John made the comments about her mental state, she was actually acting like she belonged in a mental institution, he should get to know his grandkids..grow up Angelina…
CC Says: 29.08.06 at 12:43 am
Hey Judy [Waving to Judy]!!! How was your day?
Howdy to you too Samantha!
You know, I find it really interesting that Angelina has chosen to not forgive her father.
In the past, she spoke about how her father’s extramarital affairs emotionally pained her mother. However, if seems to me that if Angelina’s mother forgave Angelina’s father for his misdeeds, she should clearly do the same!
But since Angelina has grown up to be a bonafide and perpetual Homewrecker herself (e.g., Laura Dern AND Jennifer Aniston), it seems to me that, if anything, she would be thicker than thieves with her father…considering that the man set the bar pretty high for marital and relationship infidelity. So, this is extremely confusing to me.
But as a side…..
It appears that Brad is attracted to being in romantic relationships with women who have major issues with one parent. Remember that Jennifer Aniston, at one time, had a non-existent relationship with her mother. In fact, if I’m not mistaken, her mother wasn’t even present at she and Brad’s wedding! Well, even if Jennifer’s mother was present at the wedding, I’m certain that they didn’t speak for many years. And now, the saga of Brad’s Romantic Interest vs. the Antagonistic Parent is yet being played out again!
Brad, what is it about YOU that makes you subconsciously attracted to women who have non-existent and/or antagonistic relationships with one parent? Could it be that you NEED to have a woman in your life who has “Mommy†or “Daddy†issues to make you feel more secure and “in control†of the relationship? Do you fear that a woman who has consistently had a strong male in her life could more easily detect YOUR many flaws? As well as point these out? This is a rather interesting dynamic, considering that Brad was reared by two parents in what he considered to be a maritally stable home environment.
Angelina, life is too short. If, God forbid, you lose your father TODAY, you would immediately regret the many wasted moments that you spent hating and despising his existence. Furthermore, I personally feel that your actions are extremely hypocritical, given your Goodwill Ambassador status. Am I mistaken, but isn’t one of the missions of Goodwill Ambassadorship is that you extend love, kindness, and genorosity to all humanity? Now if you can do this for people that you don’t even KNOW, surely you can extend this “kindness†to your father, who is VERY much responsible for the woman that you are today! I mean, really, whether you like it or not, you would be NO WHERE without him.
Besides, you were literally running wild (e.g., stealing women’s boyfriends, telling the media that you wanted to “taste everyone,†wearing vials of blood around your neck, kissing your brother passionately on the lips at award ceremonies,…YUCK!) and you KNEW that (1) you desperately needed to get on some medication; OR (2) you had gotten off of your medicine AGAIN! Admit it! After the doctor finally found one that somewhat stabilized you, you got off of it!
Give your father a break about his public comments as well! The man could not reach you by any means (i.e., phone, letter, fax, telegram, email, instant messenger), and he used the ONLY forum that he could, albeit a public one, to urge you, beg you, to get the help that you so desperately needed. You KNOW that your father only had the best of intentions here, so grow up!
And to Jon Voight….
Hold your head up my man! Hold your head up! You did not say anything publicly that 99.9% of the population didn’t already know! (LOL) Your daughter IS nuttier than 1,000,000,000,000,000 Almond Joy’s and we know that you were only trying to help. And you’re a FINE actor, my man! A FINE actor!
judy Says: 29.08.06 at 4:35 am
I agree that shes taking the hate thing way too far, she should let him see his grandkids, and sit down and talk it out..I understand she was upset with him, but does anyone remember when her and BBT were on the red carpet talking about f–king in the limo on the way there, Jon was standing right behind them, and she was all over BB..I don’t blame her father for thinking she had mental problems…Hi CC
CC Says: 29.08.06 at 4:39 am
Hi Judy!!!!!! [Waving to Judy]!!! How was your day????
What????? I never knew that her dad was right behind her when she said that!!!! Well, in her extremely deluded state, I believe that she probably thought that it was the Devil standing behind her. Maybe Santa Claus, The Easter Bunny, Little Bo Beep, or The Tooth Fairy. Angelina seriously suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder and I fear that she will stab Brad Pitt in his sleep!
Courtney Says: 29.08.06 at 11:39 pm
Im sorry but she DOESNT need to grow up! She has and HE is the one who needs to grow up…..WHY SHOULD SHE BE WITH SOMEONE WHO MAKES HER FEEL BAD ABOUT HERSELF. NOBODY SHOULD EVER HAVE TO DEAL WITH SOMEONE WHO GIVES THEM ANY KIND OF ABUSE IN ANY FORM!!!!!!!
Courtney Says: 29.08.06 at 11:47 pm
I’ll add that you guys dont know the situation & who are you to judge her?!?
If your going to do that go complain to every other person who isnt in contact with their parents anymore (they have their reasons). Any person has any right to not have to be in contact with someone and if thats your father then so be it!
I’ve had the same issues with my dad. I know what its like. So I take it personally.
And for those all saying the “hate” thing, I dont think she hates him, shes not that type of person, its like like shes going out of her way to get this guy out of her life….shes just living her life without this “father” who was abusive to her.
Leave her alone! Its just sick how some people say mean things about something that personal that you have NO idea about….tabloids are shit, some of you sound just like them.
CC Says: 30.08.06 at 3:59 pm
Well, Samantha and Judy…we have clearly upset a BAMZSer/Brangelina fan!!!! (LOL)
Okay Courtney, please settle down. It is SO not that serious. Breathe in and out. Count to 1,000. Drink some warm milk. Drink some vodka (if you’re of legal drinking age). But, PLEASE calm down.
Courtney, let me clarify a few things. Although I do feel that Angelina should reconcile with her father, it’s probably not for the reasons that you’re thinking. As an ADULT, she has the RIGHT to not have anything to do with her father if she desires, but I still feel that she’s wrong to deny her children an opportunity to get to know their grandfather.
Now if she feels that her children are in “danger” (which I highly doubt!) because Jon Voight was verbally abusive to her when she was a child, this does not necessarily mean that he will act the same toward his grandchildren. I have actually talked with SEVERAL people who changed considerably over time. Yes, they might have been abusive (i.e., physically, emotionally, verbally, spiritually) during one time in their life, but with TIME (and in most cases therapy), they began to see the extreme error of their ways and consciously made a change. What makes you think that Jon hasn’t been or is still receiving therapy? Something to think about.
Wouldn’t it be something if Angelina’s kids grow up one day, seek Jon Voight out, develop a very close relationship with him, and THEN dislike Angelina for not giving them the chance as young children to have a relationship with THEIR grandfather??? I know that it may sound strange, but I’ve actually seen this kind of thing happen!
Whether Angelina likes it or not, Jon Voight IS her children’s grandfather. Furthermore, she can allow her children a relationship with her father without having one with him herself. And really, UNLESS Angelina fears that her children are in danger of being abused by Jon in any way, she’s holding a grudge and this is WHY many people are of the opinion that Angelina needs to grow up.
But for Angelina’s sake and her own personal well-being, it would be advantageous if she forgave her father. If Angelina isn’t already receiving it, she needs to be in therapy BECAUSE she needs to understand WHY her father is the way that he is. Courtney, people are not born behaving the way that they do. They just aren’t. Could it be that Jon Voight was abusive to Angelina and her brother BECAUSE his father was abusive him? Or essentially, treated him the same way? And what if Jon Voight’s father’s father (his grandfather) was abusive toward his father? This a systemic issue and complex relationship pattern. And really, if this was in fact the case, this means that Angelina has a high likelihood of doing the same herself! This is WHY she needs therapy….to more clearly understand her father, and his past actions AND herself, and her past and present actions so that she can more clearly map out her future.
But really Courtney, when Jon Voight made the public comment that Angelina needed to get help, did she not ACT like someone who needed help? I know that you love Angelina and all, and this is your right, but honestly, could you not see that the woman had some major problems? Did you REALLY think that she was mentally okay when she was doing all of these wild and crazy things? Things such as telling the media that she wanted to “taste everyone,†wearing vials of blood around her neck (And since he was wearing his own vial of blood, this shows that Billy Bob had issues as well!), and kissing your brother passionately on the lips at award ceremonies??? Are these the actions of a MENTALLY SANE PERSON to you???
Courtney, I hope that my clarification helps you understand WHY many people are against Angelina. And to really be candid, since she’s been labeled a “homewrecker” by many people in the wake of the Brad Pitt-Jennifer Aniston divorce (because Brad and Angelina denied an affair and then Angelina turned up pregnant before she and Brad’s divorce was even final!), this situation with her and Jon Voight isn’t making anyone quickly take Angelina’s side.
Malia Says: 31.08.06 at 7:16 am
Angelina is a head case. This is the same women who kissed her brother on the lips at the Oscars. Her dad is right . She does have mentals issues.
Coco Puff Says: 06.09.06 at 7:25 pm
She is the biggest hypocrite. She’s mad at her Dad for fooling around on her Mother but I guess it’s okay to bang someone else’s husband.